Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Things I Learned from People I Know


I love talking to people. It may be a refutable statement but I do love it when I've got to have a chance to chat with the men and women around me. I listen to their words, observe their gestures, watch how their eyes look, assess their stories, and think over their advice and teachings. As I grow older, I've realized that I've already talked to so many of them, and pondering about our conversations, came up with the conclusion that my ideals, principles, the things I believe in life, were all there because of their influence. My mom, dad, preachers, instructors, family, friends, acquaintances, and even strangers… These are the people that I've talked to and/or listened to… and listed below are just a small fraction of the myriad things I learned from them. If you have the time to read, enjoy and try these things: 

* Be high-spirited but properly restrained.
* Keep in mind God's commandments.
* Always be humble. Always be friendly. Always be curious.
* Appreciate little things.
* Get a life.
* Learn from all kinds of people.
* Learn to walk on other's shoes. Be open-minded.
* Sacrifice things for the sake of others. Don't think much of yourself.
* Be of help, don't be a headache.
* Be assertive but polite and respectful.
* Believe in all things, and weigh which are the most important.
* Don't dwell in the past, make the best out of today, invest in your future.
* Cherish moments with friends.
* Try new dishes, go to unfamiliar places, stay dumb but learning.
* Don't be afraid to cook food and be criticized. Wash the dishes regularly. Keep your bed sheets clean.
* Hug your mom and dad whenever you have the chance.
* Always say thank you and don't be shy to say sorry.
* Don't let a precious relationship be ruined just because you're jealous.
* Procrastinating is good when you're sure you can finish your tasks in time.
* Have fun, play basketball :).
* Chat with friends.
* Don’t try to impress everyone, be yourself, but don't forget to work for improvements.
* Do what you want before it's too late.
* Don't be an annoying perfectionist.
* Always think that every people you encounter are more kind-hearted than you are.
* Appreciate beautiful things.
* Learn from your best friends.
* Communicate with your brothers and sisters - you'll be surprised to know that they are actually lovable and adorable creatures.
* Open yourself to people you care about.
* Stay happy wherever you are.
* Sketch landscapes.
* Be a different person everyday.
* Learn to comb your hair and shine your shoes.
* Smile - it's viral.
* Make phone calls, don't text.
* Communication is best when it's personal.
* Stand for what you believe in but be open-minded for better ideas.
* Touch your friends; there are things that are better left unsaid and communicated through silent intimacy.
* Accept that you don't know anything and you need to ask. Just ask wisely, by the way.
* Never be afraid to express your ideas.
* Read books… it's very therapeutic!
* Please… practice time management!
* Be true to your promises, otherwise don't make a promise.
* You don't know what tomorrow may bring, but you can pray that it will be something great.
* Respect everyone.
* Don't interrupt when someone's telling you his life story. Show that you're genuinely interested.
* The key to making friends is knowing what she likes and realizing that you share the same preference. Err..like basketball players. :)
* At the end of the day, assess what you've done and pray for strength to make it better for the next day.
* Be quick. Time is running out.
* Be practical. Be assertive. Be aggressive sometimes.
* Think of your parents when you're planning to spend money.
* Love the people who love you. Do good things to don't.
* Be nice to children. They probably don't know it when they get so annoying.
* When confused, go back to the basic.
* Review your notes!
* Strengthen your strengths.
* When you've done something great, it's not you who did it. All glory and praises are to Him. You are a worthless servant.

…and a lot more. :)

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